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        It’s really the other way around. You get to learn the personality of the spiders (and may become fond of them).

        But yeah, some species are just like that. We had a bunch of Pterinochilus murinus or “OBTs” (orange bamboo tarantula … but also orange bitey thing). They are nasty. Always on edge, no chill. Just feeding them was a pain because you had to open the enclosure and they would come at you.

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    shit I’m not even sure if the cat who’s been living with me forever gives a shit about me, I bet a spider can’t either

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    I’m not an expert, so take my findings with a grain of salt, but the current scientific consensus seems to be:

    We don’t know.

    Recent studies suggest that the behavior of spiders is more complex than previously thought. They show behavior that can’t be explained by simple automatisms, such as the development of hunting strategies depending on their prey.

    Keep in mind that these findings do not indicate any capability to love or to grow fond of someone. But there is an ongoing discussion about whether invertebrates should be considered sentient.

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      They show behavior that can’t be explained by simple automatisms

      This has been long debunked and is also obvious to anyone that even dabbled in Entomology or adjacent fields. There are certainly very complex behaviors at work. But if it qualifies as sentient is a philosophical debate and not one of arachnology.

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    No, but they’re objectively the best pet. Basically a walking plant who’s bffs with a hole in the ground and hunts crickets by staying absolutely still until it’s not.

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    Long anecdote short; no.

    Short anecdote long; nooooo. I had a Selenocosmia Crassipes (from north-east QLD, Australia) for a year or so, and she never seemed to … ‘warm’ to me.

    I had to get her out in a cup regularly to change her substrate, and/or attempt to give ‘pats’ after a few beers, but she’d always rear-up to strike :/ But I was her cricket and pinky-mouse dealer!

    I didn’t research it. I don’t have studies to cite. I didn’t approach it constructively.

    I just hoped one day we’d click, before going on adventures together.

    I miss Fluffy.