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Cake day: July 11th, 2023

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  • I think now that i know how to do it again if i run into a problem i dont mind keeping fresh about the procedure. Part of the problem is i forget how i previously did something successfully and i get worried about if i have to do it again

    So many times I did complex intricate tasks or projects while drinking or fatigued and it never became part of me so i was a sitting duck when it came to redo it or undo it lol


  • It was IPv4 address and also I was having various connection and VPN issues + Portmaster was running and interfering i think. When it runs, im not able to do wireless connection stuff with the iPhone and Windows laptop so I think I wont have this problem again.

    Just annoyed none of the Youtube videos mentioned ipconfig. That is a fantastic function


















  • Is there ongoing harm flowing from any of it? That would be my focus otherwise its sort of just ruminating. Life is hard and complicated and its better served ensuring there’s not ongoing harm and appropriate boundaries are set and ultimately that past misdeeds be addressed as appropriateto ensure that and then closed.

    If you think he’s bottom line done right by you + you enjoy him being in your life, close the matters and enjoy him. Be an example for him but not like patronizingly, tacitly you’ve learned from his mistakes and demonstrate he is mutually loved and cherished by you

    Remember: you will fuck up eventually too, no way to know when or how but you will and if your dad seems like he would stick around and support you even when it does or as he already does in the context of the otherwise machismo eastern european cultural attitudes, thats the kind of person you want to have in your corner.