And no he does not masturbate to the image. I am pondering of either seeing a psych doc with him or his PCP. Apparently this has been going on for the past 2 years.
“Lemmy, my brother, for the last two years, has just said he’s tired and wandered off for EVERY single family porn might. He’s not even masturbating with us. What do you think is wrong?”
As others already alluded to, sounds like a blood pressure thing. Either way, he should get himself checked out soon, this does not sound normal
Possibilities:
- Troll post
- Trauma response
- Faking it
- Strict religious or other upbringing that makes it feel evil/stressful
- Severe POIS (post orgasmic illness syndrome, but can also occur when getting aroused)
- POTS or similar cardiovascular health condition
- Other psychological condition
- has a dick so utterly ginormous that even the slightest bit of arousal drains a sufficient amount of blood from his system to make him pass out
I wrote that and removed it too 😂
There could be a blood pressure issue going on when he is aroused. He should see his PCP about it and go from there.
This is the correct response. See a PCP.
And then… Immediately report back what’s actually happening because this is quite interesting.
What the actual fuck is a PCP?
Primary Care Provider
Your regular “check up” doctor
WTF was wrong with saying “doctor”?
I worked in a pharmacy for 4 years, and this concept is still alien to me. I understand it of course, but it’s something I’ve never known.
It’s very American. We say “family doctor” here as of everyone has one.
GP
A whole gallon of PCP.
Huh. It comes in gallons?
Science
Check OP post history
Other responses so far are valid but as someone who has known people with this kinda reaction to sex stuff, they had cptsd from sexual assault as a child. It triggered them. Things from childhood can pop up later in life. Or maybe a recent experience could have.
Or it could just be blood pressure. Idk. But wanted to give you my experience and knowledge.
No idea why this is downvoted. Seems like a helpful suggestion
Vasovagal syncope ? It can be triggered with extreme emotions.
This was my immediate thought.
*this is not a medical diagnosis and the person posting this recommends seeking the opinion of a medical professional.
Maybe he just doesn’t want to watch porn with his brother?
“Hey bro,let’s watch porn together. Nothing wrong with that, right. Wait, where are you going? There must be something medically wrong with him. I should ask Lemmy.”
Average Lemmy moment
Not really that but as a sister we watched something and there was a sex scene and he was passed out even before it finishedl
I’d be inclined to agree with what folks have said here. But the potential trauma and potential blood pressure issue.
Only chiming in to say a friend of mine, who has a slew of other medical issues, has passed out from erections and sexual arousal. And once passed out from bottoming, so it’s not some wild strange theory. It does happen.
It is possible he is experiencing sensory overload and have undiagnosed narcolepsy.
I take it he would like to watch porn but can’t? Then yes, that’s a problem and he should see his primary care doc first. It’s a quality of life issue.
He might be a Baptist
Congenital Baptistism. Terrible fate. There’s hope for a cure with Crispr, though
Like your username! Are you Buddhist?
Hey, thanks!
Sort of a hodgepodge. Hinduism (advaita Vedanta, kashmiri Shaivism mainly), some Buddhism as well, and an Episcopalian. Haha. Mostly I’m a nondualist who really, really likes philosophy. I picked the username years ago when I was just beginning to explore eastern philosophy, and it was a pun/play on the term bi curious.
Thanks for answering :)
What aspects of advaita do you think lacks that Buddhism fills? What’s Kashmiri Shaivism? I know those two words but not that tradition.
Haha of course you’re Episcopalian. I was growing up. They’ve become quite open recently.
It’s a fun username :) especially for someone interested in various dharmas. Have you read into Jainism or Sikhism at all?
Warning: religion, philosophy, nondualism and metaphysics are my trains. I wrote you a thesis before realizing what I had done. You’re not going to hurt my feelings if you don’t read the freaking book I just wrote. Lmao. Sowwy
I’m pretty new to TEC, to be honest. Grew up Baptist, but that wasn’t a good fit for various reasons, and sort of just did my own thing for a long time. Ended up finding the Episcopals when I decided I wanted to try going to church again. Helluva difference, being in a liturgical tradition, and I like it a lot.
Re: Buddhism V advaita:
So, it’s not so much about what one fills that the other lacks as it is about… Perspective? If multiple groups are all saying something similar, but with different focuses, intentions, inflections, verbage, et cetera, I think it’s interesting to examine both, find their commonalities and differences, and try to understand the underlying message. Buddhism speaks of emptiness, Advaita of illusion. While Buddhism tells us there is no self, advaita says there is no self except the self, the singular Brahman. I’ll be honest in that I am really new to Buddhism, and most of my advaita comes from Vivekananda and Ramakrishna and others labeled neoadvaita, but there is a lot of traditionalist thought and teaching in there, too. But I think, ultimately, they’re saying very similar, if not the same, things, and that by allowing yourself to float a bit between them you get to understand them a bit more. Kind of like how if you learn Italian and Spanish and Romanian you might have a much easier time understanding some old Latin texts. **
Re: Kashmiri Shaivism:
If you’re at all interested in nondualism you’ve got to check out Kashmiri Shaivism! Very cool tradition. It’s a nondualism tradition, but with Shiva as the focus instead of Brahman. It’s independent of Advaita, and IIRC significantly older. Like, potentially Indus Valley civilization old. Prevedic old. Though, obvious any living tradition has changed in that amount of time. There are several really good YouTubers that do advaita info (and if you’re anywhere near NC then Swami Sarvapriyananda from the Vedanta Society of NYC is going to be in Raleigh in March, and I’m hopefully going to be there), but there’s less info on Kashmiri Shaivism. There’s the Kauai’s Hindu Monastery also called Himalayan Academy, but I don’t remember if they’re specifically Kashmiri or not, but I do think they’re ultimately nondualist, or qualified nondualists. I’ll look around and find some resources if you’re interested.
And yeah, Jainism is fascinating! Though so strict. I can’t imagine being brought up in that tradition. I have Catholic Guilt by association, and I’m not even Catholic. Lol. I can’t imagine what the idea of that strict an understanding of Karma would do to my psyche! Lmao
And I have actually just recently begun reading about Sikhism again! I love their ideas around universality of religions.
Are you at all familiar with Meister Eckhart? Turns out, there’s a Christian nondualist tradition!
Sufism is another really interesting entry point into Abrahamic nondualism, too. Though it’s a minority viewpoint even within Sufism, a minority trend in Islam, from what I understand. If you’re interested in that Tawhid is a good keyword for search and Let’s Talk Religion has an excellent video (or several) on Islamic nondualists and mysticism
I’m gonna stop writing there, because this is already a wall of text. Sorry!
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I lied. Bit more on what I was saying about Buddhism and Advaita. I look at religion the same way I look at language. You have language families that share a common ancestor proto language, and we can see that with philosophical thought as well. Hell, it’s often along the same lines. Indo-european languages are often spoken by groups of people that also had similar religious thought. There are deep similarities between Greek and Roman paganism and the Vedic gods, for instance, as well as with Norse paganism.
Above language families you have the more speculative language phylum, and so on it goes. I think that, ultimately, if you trace the root of a word back far enough, you often find it is present in some form in a proto language shared by seemingly disparate languages, and then working forward again you can find all of these cognates in other languages, and how this simple word in proto Germanic, or PIE is now present, but significantly different, in millions of people’s lives.
I apply that same thinking to religion. We see similar concepts, myths, stories crop up in areas that, on the surface, have completely different religious structures. Hinduism and Judaism appear to be completely different, but Hinduism and Zoroastrianism influenced each other to a considerable degree (they even call each other’s gods demons and demons gods. Deva/Deava, Asura/Ahura.). Zoroastrianism in turn influenced the crap out of the region, and that includes ancient yahwism and Judaism. There are parts of Leviticus that are almost identical to Zoroastrian texts. Judaism, and in turn Christianity, were also heavily influenced by Hellenistic Greek traditions (sometimes positively, by adopting things, sometimes negatively by making their rejection of them a staple of their faith). Nothing exists in a vacuum (on earth anyway. Lol), and there’s so much influence on everything that, much like with language, there exists a sort of continuum of belief. Sure, there are definitely still languages, we need that mutual intelligibility to communicate, but from a really broad historical view, they’re all basically connected. Isolates notwithstanding.
Jesus, I am so sorry for how long this comment is.
I read your whole comment. I’m working on a PhD in religious studies so your in my field of interest ;) I will try to respond to you when I’m not on mobile so I can read as I write
That’s what I wanted to get my degree in, but for a couple of different reasons, I need to be able to go online, not in person, and couldn’t find a program at an online school that looked decent. Very willing to change schools for that if you know of anything! Religious studies is the dream.
He is smoking PCP? That’s his trouble too much for the poor bastard.
Primary Care Physician
Oh this is like when I was on another sub and woman were talking about having E.D. so confused untill I learned it was eating disorder not erecticial dysfunction!
some women can get erections
Not if they have E.D.
This progressed downhill so quickly I gave it an uptoot
I mean have you ever gotten a boner when you’re super hungry…
Upvoted for fucking funny.