Please don’t say neither (that’s not an option)

  • tygerprints@kbin.social
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    11 months ago

    Well - first of all, what does a "proper"orgasm mean? I think everyone orgasms kind of differently anyway (or uniquely). But I’d definitely rather have good hair and not orgasm by someone else’s definition of properly. Probably nobody’s going to judge the way you orgasm, but people definitely judge you by how good your hair looks (don’t pretend they don’t). I know, I was born with bad hair - thin, lots of cow licks, basically crazy hair.

    Bald is OK if you can pull if off. I’ve rarely seen any guy who looks good bald, to be honest. Maybe Yule Brynner. But most men look dorky when they shave off their hair. And some of us would love to have that hair, could you send it to us so we can glue it on our scalps with Elmer’s?

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      11 months ago

      There’s the possibility of erectile dysfunction in exchange for keeping hair, too… i just didn’t want to overcomplicate the question lol

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    11 months ago

    Comparison is the thief of joy, eh ?

    Both are alive.

    Bald can be explained as “too much testosterone my hair was scared of my masculinity”. But you need to mop up sweat constantly.

    Losing sexual function can be tough but also freeing of binds that create lots of social disarray.

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      11 months ago

      You may consider a transplant then, and if no drugs, then you may need to get another one later down the track as well, possibly repeatedly.

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      11 months ago

      Would you cut off and eat your own dick for 150 billion dollars? (This would make you the 4th richest person in the world)

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    11 months ago

    I’m not getting laid anyways, and already have to wear a hat all the time. Give me my hair back.

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      At what threshold do you go full bald at? I’ve been struggling with this for years as my hair thins out. I’ve got the balding dome on my crown in the back, which of course I never see unless I look with 2 mirrors.

      Anyways this is a query I just constantly ask people to get their opinion. What say you, internet stranger?

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        11 months ago

        If you have a big balding spot that’s visible, I say either get a hair transplant or embrace it (it will probably progress until you may want to eventually shave it all off). You can go either way. But you will need to go on drugs as well if you want to keep the effect of the hair transplant (unless you get repeated transplants). Hope this helped

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            11 months ago

            One more option: hair fibres, but this is a temporary solution and your balding will still progress most likely

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      11 months ago

      What’s PFS? Google search showed multiple possibilities and I can’t see how any are related to this

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      11 months ago

      Agreed on dut tho (semi, finasteride might be fine enough with lower risk of side effects)

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      11 months ago

      Very good point. Are you also aromantic, if that’s okay to ask? That is, some people are asexual but still enjoy engaging in romance just without the sexual stuff. Forgive me if I said this wrong

  • Thelsim@sh.itjust.works
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    11 months ago

    Please don’t say neither (that’s not an option)

    Both?

    Edit:
    Ok, in all semi-seriousness, I like my hair and like to keep it. Sex is still fun without an orgasm.
    I’m more of a giver than a taker anyway :)