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Cake day: March 16th, 2024

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  • Socializing is exhausting. I usually have a couple of people besides my girlfriend that I chat with, and it’s more than enough for me.

    I understand that socializing is an important aspect of life. I’m certain there’s all sorts of papers detailing the benefits of it, but I do also think it’s important to learn to be comfortable spending time by yourself.




  • A bit of an exaggeration but a lot of people will never understand that some people do not have much of a social battery left at the end of the day.

    I have had so many people including rl friends, exs, or people I used to play online games with fail to understand that I don’t have that much energy in the evenings or even on the weekends sometimes. There’s dealing with my boss, dealing with my coworkers, dealing with people from other firms. Sometimes through teams, sometimes through the phone, sometimes in person.










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    9 months ago

    Not surprising. Israel had the tech to bug everyones phones.

    The Israeli NSO group which is a day 1 hacks group developed the Pegasus spyware and found lots of creative ways to get it on peoples phones. They also sold it later on to just about anyone who was willing to pay.


  • After being a few months away from being married and seeing it all fall apart I’ve realized that I don’t ever want to be married.

    Doesn’t mean I don’t want a long term relationship but I don’t want to tie the knot and tangle up my life like that ever again. If we had gotten married then divorced my ex would have ruined me. I was too soft at that time and I would have let her use me as a doormat on the way out. I know better now but I still don’t want to deal with those complications.


  • Tbf it’s rare to see normal people posting on social media in 2024, at least everyone I see is fucked up in some way.

    This might be a bold assumption on my part but I would say most normal people do not have the energy for the craziness that occurs on a lot of socials now.

    You want to engage and be a part of the community but it’s just far too exhausting in many cases. Easier to just browse most of the time.



  • From the context it was obviously an offhanded joke,

    Ah so that’s the thread in question. Was wondering what post it was and honestly, I suspected that one of being rage bait.

    The original image seemed like it was missing context so I figured OP was gonna come swinging in later against any comments saying it was extreme with the additional context.

    And yes, out of context I thought it was a bit extreme. I don’t necessarily agree with what the first person in the image said although that’s a complex topic that deserves a much lengthier discussion, but just randomly having someone tell them that they’re a creep who deserves to be tased is fairly extreme without any additional context. Keep in mind, I have no idea who the individual is or what they’ve done.



  • Sure, if they’re abandoned.

    The issue is that we have so, so many stray cats. So, so many cats left in shelters. We do not need people to breed more cats just so people can have their very expensive and very specifically bred designer furbaby. We need people to take care of the ones that already exist and are already struggling.