I’m glad I dated in the 80s. Murder rate was much higher but we didn’t live in fear because there wasn’t a social media algorithm telling us to be afraid of everything.
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I like winter. It makes the hot dry summer tolerable.
Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.cato
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Does anyone actually like... talk to extended family/relatives? Like an active effort to maintain relations and not just because of forced family gatherings?English
3·19 days agoSome, not all. And who I stay in touch with changes over time. I have many aunts, uncles, cousins and the next 2 generations so it isn’t possible to keep meaningfully in touch with everyone. We have a pretty good grapevine so information eventually filters through.
Do they all leap over the plastics?
Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.cato
Piracy: ꜱᴀɪʟ ᴛʜᴇ ʜɪɢʜ ꜱᴇᴀꜱ@lemmy.dbzer0.com•Netflix kills casting from phonesEnglish
23·1 month agoNo problem. I already killed having a Netflix account - too American.
Canada’s land area didn’t change. It’s still second only to Russia, I believe. It simply doesn’t show as 4x the size of some other countries in this map version.
Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.cato
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's an unscientific opinion that you firmly hold?English
7·2 months agoProbably does since the sunscreen makers have been lying for years about how much protection their product actually offers. People slathered with 30 or 50 when it was really only 5 or 10.
Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.cato
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's an unscientific opinion that you firmly hold?English
14·2 months agoI’ve known plenty of very prepared people over the last 60 years to know that opportunity doesn’t show up for everyone nor can they make it happen. There is always some luck, good or bad, that happens in people’s lives.
Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.cato
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's an unscientific opinion that you firmly hold?English
5·2 months agoSpeed limits are not for how fast any particular vehicle and driver could negotiate the road. They are for all the other factors in road use. How many roads/driveways intersect the road, what are the sightlines, what other users (bikes, pedestrians) use the road. Does weather make a difference? How homogeneous are the vehicle types and driving ability of those users? People who speed usually vastly overestimate their abilities to react - and then blame the other guy for what would have been prevented had they been driving at the speed limit.
Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.cato
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Why is socialization so hard in the 2020s?English
5·2 months agoThe only mistake in your sentence is “anymore”. The world has always been too expensive for a large part of the population. Most people from the past generations (in North America) never left their home area because they could never afford to travel. Camping was a thing because that was the only vacation many could afford and it was to a campsite within a couple hours drive. People came over for a dinner of hot dogs & chips because no one could afford to host a fancy meal. The house wasn’t spotless because everyone was working during the day but the point was socializing not one-upping each other. Entire wardrobes (winter & summer) fit into half a standard 8’ closet. If one looks at the past through extreme rose coloured glasses they only see the successes and miss the majority’s reality which was often something much less. What to do? Find free stuff to do.
Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.cato
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Why is socialization so hard in the 2020s?English
26·2 months agoEveryone’s expectation of what others need to be to be acceptable socially has skyrocketed while their expectations of what they themselves need to deliver has bottomed out. In dating women only want perfect looking and acting males of higher status and higher income (so much for income inequality) who bring in the majority of the income while also doing at least 50% of the housework. Men expect barbies that never age and also somehow do all the housework and bring in half the salary while on call for sex or gaming 24/7. Friends have to have the exact same income so that they can’t outspend you or become freeloaders while being constantly interesting and available while you can’t be expected to RSVP or even show up if it doesn’t suit you in that moment. There isn’t any common ground because no one should have to settle for less than their every desire, whim, expectation. No one is allowed to expect that much of them and must be willing to take them at their worst. Friends & partners must always do the right thing and never, ever make a mistake.
Somewhere along the line, social media meant people stopped treating each other as humans and instead as a commodity to use to get what they want. Then they look to said social media (exaggeration and all, mine included) to find the answers and find outrage instead.
Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.cato
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What tropes are constantly used about groups of men or groups of women, even though it is obviously false?English
2·2 months agoBack in the 80s we called ourselves nerds if we were in math, science or computing.
Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.cato
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Why is bicycle riding so controversial in America?English
4·2 months agoThey don’t consume fossil fuels to operate. Can’t have masses of people not enslaved to their car and its operations since that might hurt some big corporations bottom line.
As we have learned, many Americans really do think this way. It isn’t even a joke anymore. Americans will vote massively against their own interests so long as they think it might hurt people they dislike.
Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.cato
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Anti-AI people, did you ever like AI? If so, when did you stop?English
8·2 months agoWhen the money and energy sucking slop that currently is being billed as “AI” is what tech bros are using to rob us now. It is garbage. It will remain garbage. It will suck as much money as possible into the tech bros companies and waste energy to the Nth degree while doing it. It is a the biggest con / scam of this century.
I only sacrificed sleep a bit in the first 3 years until both my kids were sleeping through the night. In no time they are school age, then off to university. The people I often see represented by the women in the comic are those who are married to their jobs, not parents. If you don’t want kids, fine, don’t have them but many parents think their kids are one of the best parts of their lives. Things that are the most worthwhile in your life often take a bit of work or challenge.
Much different meaning of nookie than I’ve ever heard of.
Didn’t use enough of that either. Only the bacon looks like it has seen a grill or pan.
Or could it be that the place and time when salmon are easily seen by people is spawning season and at least some of the species turn a bright “salmon pink/red” colour at that time? They are dying then as well, but naturally, so it is still and end of life colour for them.


Code that has lasted, with some maintenance, for 50+ years vs code that doesn’t work from day 1? What advances we have made!