There is this girl I have been talking to for a time. I like her, and we also share some common ground. Recently she told how she is struggling very much with anxiety.

She’s worried people dislike her, worried about people only pretending to be her friend, people slowly losing interest. She is without exaggeration suicidal about it. More over I overheard her saying she hates people who are only interest in sex.

And here is the damned kicker, I am only interest in having sex with her. Normally when people talk about how they dislike people only interested in sex, I take that as my cue to leave. It’s totally fine they feel this way, but it also means we’re not compatible. However seeing how this girl is damn near suicidal about people pretending to like her, I’m not sure what to do.

If she’s not into one night stands that’s fine but that does mean I’m walking (I’m also not interested in any friendship). But I don’t want her to kill herself over it either.

  • moonlight@fedia.io
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    7 hours ago

    It’s okay, really. Many people here just really dislike AI, and see it as low effort slop, which diminishes the human element that’s important to the fediverse. I wouldn’t take the downvotes personally, they’re not really directed at you.

    I think you should just post the comments you wrote, before having ChatGPT rewrite it! If you’re really self conscious about your English you could put a disclaimer in your comment, but I don’t think that’s necessary.

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        7 hours ago

        Seriously? Maybe this isn’t a good place for you if you’re going to behave this way.

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              2 hours ago

              They’re clearly a troll account. If you look at their comment history it’s all like this, and “what is world?” And repeated “Nobody likes me” and an entire string of comments that are just “well” in different communities.

              Block and move on.