• Match!!@pawb.social
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    20 hours ago

    this is tantamount to changing who you are in order to find out how people feel about you

    • AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      3
      ·
      14 hours ago

      That’s not necessarily a bad thing. Especially as one could just as easily spin this in a more empathetic light: in acknowledging one’s own desire to be seen, we can realise that it’s likely that many other people feel similarly.