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Cake day: February 22nd, 2026

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  • I remember as a kid I was so excited when I got a blue chocobo in FF7 (I’m old) I ran upstairs to tell my mother. She did not care, nor pretend to care. Made me a little sad, and what could have been a nice moment did not materialize.

    I try to listen to the children in my life. If little nephew wants to tell me about his robots and pokemon, I’ll be there and try to engage







  • Ehh. It’s hard for me to relate to low executive function, but you’re not wrong.

    I think the key metric isn’t time to reply. The stakes matter- replying quickly to a meme is less important than, like, making plans. If someone isn’t responsive about if they want to go, then I probably don’t get a ticket for them, and they can’t come to the show with us. Sorry. You were busy.

    And the quality is also important. I’ve got friends that will reply like a day or two later, but then we usually have a whole conversation.

    If someone is replying every few days with “lol” tier responses, it’s going to feel like a waste of my time.