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  • I did a tour in a NATO army, in Europe, conscript. I was in a Scout/Pathfinder unit (volunteer, perks), so we had real “kill fast, silently and with prejudice” among other training. However, in peace time we had some ceremonial/escort duties. We did some “essential” drill team duties. I liked to say we were armed majorettes. The kill-gunnery-explosives-orienteering-etc. stuff I could consider useful knowledge/training for extreme situations, but the drill stuff is about the useless-est skills ever acquired.




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    My mother and her friend set her daughter and me up. We were teens. We hit it off, and were a thing for over 2 years. I moved away, and we tried the long distance thing, but it didn’t work out (Duh!).

    She’s one of the best things that’s happened in my life. Smart, sweet, funny, so, so cute, with an edge when appropriate…

    Go along. If you don’t hit it off, well, so what. You aren’t getting married. Just don’t go with preconceptions, or expectations. Just expect to have a good time. Worst case is “Ok, see ya”

    Also, break the ice with “Isn’t this cringy AF?!” or something like that.








  • Why are so many USian against gun control?

    I live in Europe. I can own handguns, semiauto rifles, including assault types and other sporting/hunting guns. I cannot modify them.

    Magazines are limited to 3 rounds, although procuring/3D printing larger ones is trivial, but if I get caught with one + the rifle, I’m are fucked.

    I have to pass a physical and psych test.

    I must attend a course which is essentially gun discipline and safety.

    My guns are registered, Including ballistic samples.

    If I sell a gun the police must be notified, and the buyer vetted.

    My guns must be kept in a locked, approved, gun locker.

    When in a car, the gun must be in a carry box, in the trunk, and munitions in the glove box.

    Except for some details please explain how this is fundamentally different from owning and driving a car.






  • I’m tri-lingual, and can make myself understood for basic stuff and can generally get the gist in 3 more. I learned English by immersion in my teens, probably the ideal age. When I arrived in America, beginning of summer, I joined all youth summer activities available in town; baseball, archery, joined a Scout group, etc. I made friends and was interacting in English constantly. By School start, I was placed in regular classes. My sister didn’t do these things and was placed in many English for learners classes, with foreign students. I speak much better than her.

    Also, I watched Sesame Street, Mr Roger’s, and other children’s shows

    My kids have not lived in an English speaking country, but game in English, watch all media in English, with subtitles in English, and attended bi-lingual schools. I spoke in English with them a lot while they were growing up. They speak very good English, with my daughter having EU C2 level, the highest official level in a foreign language.

    Watching foreign media, with subtitles in that language, including children’s shows, reading foreign news and stuff, etc. helps a lot.

    Also, in many areas there are foreign language oriented Meetups.