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Cake day: November 5th, 2025

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  • There is this saying “gender is a spectrum”. I know firsthand how important the proper label can be, at the same time gender is something like a lifelong performance act - and it’s fine if you’re not sure right now what the proper label might be.

    For me it sounds like you are on your own journey for a while now and you will figure it out by your own soon. Often family members shape our perspective of gender but as we leave family, make new friends and learn new things we can break free of the childhood stereotypes and find very own gender expression and/or label somewhere along the road.

    I wish for you to meet lots of new trans, enby and genderfluid people this summer, so you can figure it out <3





  • [the term should be “neurodivergent” - neurodiverse is everyone as far as I know]

    I knew I was different™ since being 10 years old. Invited the whole class to my birthday and it was a fucking no show. No one person!

    Had issues to get the social behavior performances before but that’s when I realized.

    But the term “neurodivergence” didn’t cross me 'til Covid hitted. In my family only my brother got an ASD diagnostic since back then it’s been only diagnosed for “boys with hyperfixations”. My sister got hers last year being close to 40 y.o. Same for me.

    But I’ve known forever. It’s just relieving now to know “it’s just me processing life different” as a neurodivergent person instead of me being weird or akward or not fit for life