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Cake day: August 16th, 2023

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  • Dedicated gay beach, as far as it gets without having some official designation of that sort. Straight people just don’t go there at all, based on decades of my beachgoing in the area, local oral knowledge, and, well, going there myself and seeing the people. My friend once tried to go there, his mother (who has lived nearby on and off for decades and has family there) asked him wtf he’s doing, that’s the gay beach…

    If you were actually at some sort of private gay club where public sex is allowed, all good, but I feel like you probably wouldn’t be questioning and trying to justify it if that was the case.

    Well, obviously, I realise this was definitely a more questionable case, especially as I consider it in retrospect 😅


  • Well, the beach was a dedicated gay nudist beach, so I figured it might be more tolerant of that (though a friend of mine, who passed it by many times, said he has never seen people having sex there), and the place was relatively secluded so very few people on the beach could see it at all. Definitely not kids.

    So that’s how I’m rationalising it to myself.

    But you explain it well, and I guess some feeling of guilt is deserved. Beach sex isn’t very comfortable anyway so I’m not planning to do it again any time soon.












  • Chose your own dystopia. Where no ads exist and everything is pay per view/read/report/etc. Or the one we’re in.

    Ads being a replacement for paying applies to internet services (social media, news sites, etc. that you can use for free). When you have billboards on the side of the road, you still have to pay the road toll. When you see ads in public transport, you still have to pay the ticket. When ads are shown on a TV channel, you still have to pay the subscription.

    Online ads, as insufferable as they are, are still more clearly justifiable from the end user’s point of view than traditional ones.



  • That’s what you’d assume, but again in my country this is not a rare situation. Yes, people literally spend years studying to become gynecologists, and then don’t want to do one of the important parts of their job.

    Admittedly, it is believed that many of the gynecologists actually do the abortions… in private clinics where they work in along with their job in the public hospital.