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Cake day: June 29th, 2023

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  • absGeekNZ@lemmy.nztoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldshrooms
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    16 days ago

    Interesting; I was in hospital last year, opioid pain relief doesn’t work for me. They tried a few times at increasing dosages and it just does nothing.

    Paracetamol works well, they tried ketamine and I told them to stop because it made me feel terrible.



  • I have multi-sensory aphantasia. No pictures/sounds/tastes/touch/smell. My inner voice is soundless but constant.

    I discovered aphantasia at 40; it is not a lack or detriment merely a difference. I talked with my Mum about it, she is has aphantasia and didn’t realise and she is 66.

    Aphantasia doesn’t hold you back or make life harder; especially since you can go decades without realising that you have it.

    You may have other stuff, ASD or ADHD etc…but aphantaisa isn’t in the same realm.






  • absGeekNZ@lemmy.nztoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world:-)
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    We tried a lot of techniques…

    Rigid schedules, no schedules , big feeds, lots of little feeds…nothing seemed to work. For one kid, he wouldn’t sleep unless he was next to one of us; one of the others wanted to be in the same room but not the same bed…

    But once they hit ~3 it was like a switch flipped, and now they all sleep with no issues.





  • I don’t want to sound judgmental. I’ve never been in your position.

    One potential way to approach this would be to “bring the shelter staff on the juorney”.

    • Tell them as soon as you confirm the job.
    • Thank them for their support.
    • Explain that you will be getting some equipment, and that you will need to connect it to Ethernet.
    • Give them the great news, that you have organised housing for yourself, once that first paycheck comes in.
    • Let them feel yes excitement, at the prospect of getting some momentum in your life.
    • If they express concern, invite them to sit with you while you work, show them you are trustworthy.

    This is a people problem, not a technical one. People that run shelters, especially volunteers, a good people. But they likely have been burned in the past; they will not blindly trust.