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Cake day: October 24th, 2023

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  • For quite a few years now I’ve practiced Capoeira!

    I picked it because it was unique and interesting. Is it a fighting style? A dance? A game? Yes, actually! ;)

    The philosophy of using it as a means to obtain freedom and an expression of such really resonated with me. Also, culturally, there’s just so much depth there.

    …But also I like to tell people “It’s one of the only martial arts you can really show off at dance parties.” Lol

    I actually teach it now. Most of my lifestyle involves a chair and glowing computer screen, so I wanted to look after my health and be able to move in really cool ways! :)

    Capoeira for self defense: I’ll be the first to say, if you want the most efficient, quickest way to beat up a human being as soon as possible…this is probably not it.

    BUT it’s quite a challenge on your cardiovascular system and you learn to move and flow in really neat tricky ways, which can be valuable to any martial artist or fighter. Over time, you almost learn to mind-read the other player, and even manipulate them into traps.

    A Capoeirista with a solid grasp of the art knows when a movement is practical to defend themselves, vs. just for fun in a game, but a perk of training cartwheels and handstands is that “A capoeirista is never upside-down.” We can land on our hands and feet with equal confidence, and retaliate from many different awkward positions.

    And I love how it’s a game too, and there’s even a music element to it. The kicks can be SCARY but we also place high value on demonstrating control to not incapacitate our training partners.

    (This is why we separately practice contact work for practical scenarios outside the “roda” or circle of the game.)

    It’s a lot of fun, and there’s so many nuanced layers to it. I am in agreement with a lot of posters here: “fighting” is a different skillset to martial arts, although martial arts helped.

    I myself, thankfully, am not accustomed to violence, but I am always mentally training to spot and avoid trouble. I definitely have a leg up in a fight against the risks of a sedentary lifestyle though. 😆











  • All sound advice, but coming across the extra capital to invest, much less in your 20’s, is a harder prospect than it sounds for most people these days.

    I’m not sure if you can get fractionals of SPY or VTI, but $300-500 a paycheck or even a month of money you can’t use on the moment is a hard ask for much of the working class.

    It’s less like “Stop the avocado toast and lattés and netflix” and more “If you stopped buying a new graphics card every month you could afford stonks that will be mature when you are elderly.”

    Lol like, we aren’t living in luxury and frivolous with our money in the first place, it usually poofs away into food and rent these days. (And gas and the car, if you aren’t in one of VERY few places that are walk and bike friendly.)

    But for people who have it. This is a sound strategy. On that note, I have a relative who’s got very few expenses, often broke…and they’re constantly buying new full-priced releases on Steam. This degree of resource mismanagement vexes me so. Lol


  • Omg you knocked it out of the park with this one. Everything is such a race to the bottom in this system.

    It’s always about competitive undercutting, and what’s the most ruthless cold-blooded calculations one can get away with, and this Type A disease of being obsessed with zero-sum conflict to reveal who’s the absolute best of everything.


    “Why can’t we just chill and it’ll get there when it gets there?”

    “What?! Look at (for example) China! Do you see them chilling? No! They normalized 12 hour shift burnout before us, this will increase their production 3%, and then undercut us by 12% and steal all our business and we’re screwed! So we need to squeeze our people harder to beat them!”

    “…And then they’ll squeeze their people harder…so…?”

    “…”

    “…”

    “This might be a good time to inform you we expect you to train the new overseas team before we’ll surprise ambush-fire your entire department.”


    …Repeat the above but for undocumented immigrant labor…then maybe child labor…then probably right back around to slavery again…

    “Oh no we all agreed this would be so bad for humanity, but gee, the competition did it and we wanna stay competitive so…”

    Man seriously why can’t we all just be doing our own thing lol…


  • Fantastic thought-provoking points here. You’re right, that’s something I had kinda forgotten about when I wrote before:

    Helping-professionals are (ideally) in those professions to help people, so their employers essentially hold patients/clients/students up as shields.

    You’re right, to change things would require a cultural shift that sees providers as “people” rather than “services.” But generally it would be an extremely difficult PR war to sell to the people who require such services.

    The soulless bosses are basically comic book villains: They know heroes will put themselves at considerable risk for the greater good, but won’t risk the harming of innocents…

    …so the greedy ownership class hides behind those innocents and, what’s worse, trains them to accept such a low standard that any action that would drop that standard would turn the peoples’ anger against the heroes who already sacrifice so much to help them.

    I hate not knowing what to do past understanding what’s so wrong. :(