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Fandangalo@lemmy.worldto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Is it ok to say "when I was a little boy" or describe my 8-year-old self as a boy from this information?
2·2 months agoAgreed here. Why bring in gender at all?
Fandangalo@lemmy.worldto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What are your opinions about the word clanker?
4·2 months agoA lot of people are saying there isn’t a rights argument, which I think is true.
Considering this through the lens of a video game, is it morally bad if I pay a hooker in GTA, use their services, and then kill them? I don’t think there is harm. I don’t think there are rights. It wouldn’t matter if everyone was cruel to GTA NPCs.
Having said that, from a behavioral position, I don’t think it’s morally good. Put another way, this sort of behavior isn’t a good thing to emulate. I don’t think it’s a good idea to cultivate a habit of emulating cruelty.
As others have said, there’s still the risk of AGI in the future as well.
With where we are right now, I don’t think it’s a big deal, but I’m not interested in entertaining new slurs, fictional or real.
That’s called Unitarian Universalism.
Fandangalo@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are the most sentimental items to you and why?
10·2 months ago
These are important to me as gifts from my sister who passed away a few weeks ago. She gave them to me when I was 8 or something, and I’m 36 now. They are supposed to be for good luck & improved studies.
Could be a blooper, prank, or comedy show. Someone also posted AI examples that are close too.
Wild. I guess with enough data.
I would wager comedy show as a good guess based on the other commentor’s observation, but could be AI.
I don’t think so, primarily because of the reversed title on the desk. That would be pretty hard for it to calculate as a detail.
Fandangalo@lemmy.worldto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•I'm new to lemmy, came from reddit. What's the lemmy etiquette like? How different is it from reddiqutte?
10·3 months agoMaybe the largest difference for me is how the federated nature changes the social dynamics. For instance, people from Instance X don’t like those from Instance Y, or may even ban them.
This was prevalent on Reddit, buuuut banning can be instance or node based compared to subreddit.
I likely have some opinions or takes I wouldn’t post on lemmy.ml because lemmy.ml has a particular bent. I agree with a lot of it, but I wouldn’t want to offend with what doesn’t align or would get me banned. The ban cascades further out, and how servers interact as wholes with one another in terms of federation is similar.
The social platform mechanics are also different. Upvote has a different impact compared to Reddit (I don’t fully remember the specifics). I think saving has its own relevancy or something?
It’s mostly the same though.
The updoot farming here makes me hesitant, but it’s still true.
For comparison (I was curious)

Not if it’s swallowed.
Fandangalo@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What would you do to help a terminally online person?
63·4 months agoIf you didn’t want help, and someone showed up and started doing stuff, saying, “Hey I’m helping,” I doubt most people would want that help. Tl;dr you can only help those that want help or those that are open to it.
I think the best thing you can do is be supportive, invite them out, and showcase the positive aspects of your life & the life you’d want them to have. It’s not showboating / gloating, but it’s including them & offering them what a wider life might look like. When they want to change, you can be present for them in that moment.
Trying to change people can be such a fool’s errand. I’ve tried to do it with a bunch of friends over the last decade. You can’t move people who don’t want to be moved. You can maybe inspire them for more.
Fandangalo@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What would a modern "Mac vs. PC" ad look like?
13·4 months agoBoth of them beating up a penguin probably.
Fandangalo@lemmy.worldto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•When did Cash for Chritianity become a thing? When even Jesus the son of god wouldn't stand for it in a church? If they preach why don't they practice from the bible?
4·4 months agoIt’s a great community and shares a lot with us. More people should know about faith communities doing the good work in the world, rather than swindling their congregations for mega churches with elaborate shows, while telling people “empathy is not Christian.” It’s absurd what’s happening in those congregations right now.
Fandangalo@lemmy.worldto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•When did Cash for Chritianity become a thing? When even Jesus the son of god wouldn't stand for it in a church? If they preach why don't they practice from the bible?
4·4 months agoReligion is a set of beliefs, typically in things beyond what we can falsify (hence faith). It’s not inherently powerful to believe people should be treated with respect. A belief in democracy is a belief in giving others equal power to our own (part of my UU faith).
Unitarian Universalism holds very little power in the world. It’s a beautiful faith tradition. Sure, there are powerful religions, but again, that’s power, not religion.





If you think about it as “What’s the percentage chance that 1 of 4 family members is a sociopath? What’s the percentage that 2 family members are sociopaths?”, then I think it has to be less than 4%. Genetics make it more likely than 4% * 4%, I think.