I have seen in many US shows where they portray guys who are living with parents as losers, or there are jokes or memes about it, I never get it.

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    9 months ago

    I assume you are American, and probably not Hispanic?

    Because these assumptions are extremely cultural.

    Anyways, for white Americans “Self-sufficiency” (or Self-reliance as Ralph Waldo Emmerson called an extreme version of it) is an old Puritan value, like hardwork and lifelong monogamy.

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      9 months ago

      Don’t know why you’re getting downvoted. You’re not off base. My family is Hispanic and my mom would love it if I lived with her till I’m 40.

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      9 months ago

      Not just cultural, but also time sensitive. If this were even 10 years ago then living with your parents would seem like weird, but today? Understand why it would still live at home or live with a person or multiple people even

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        9 months ago

        I disagree that the culture currents have changed that fast.

        If the economy recovered and gave much better prospects for young people and housing was cheaper, they’d still be expected to move out on their own.

        I think people understand the realities of our current situation, but usually multigenerational housing is still not considered an ideal situation.