What words, phrases or signs do you use and how do you get your partner’s attention?

  • 1bluepixel@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I wouldn’t say we speak in people’s faces, but we make comments to each other about random stuff. I would never say something rude about somebody in their faces, but my spouse might go, “Can we go back to the hotel, I really need to take a shit” or something silly and unfiltered like that.

      • putoelquelolea@lemmy.ml
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        1 year ago

        It’s rude for spouses to have a private conversation? Would whispering be better? Would it be better if they hid in a cupboard where no one could see them?

        • Kepabar@startrek.website
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          1 year ago

          Yes, it’s generally considered rude to switch languages specifically to hide your conversation.

          It’s because most will assume you are doing it to talk shit.

          • putoelquelolea@lemmy.ml
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            1 year ago

            Sure, if people suddenly switched languages and then laughed in my face, I would feel bad.

            But if it’s like the other comments in this post, and it’s a couple having a quick word about a private matter, I wouldn’t mind. It’s not like I should be a part of that conversation