Sorry if this topic is stupid, I feel very stupid right now. I got transferred to a new department and I’ve had 2 or 3 clashes with the new boss about me not getting the hint. He finally gave me a metric, a number to get to. He spelled it out. I can do that, but I’m just freaking out that he’s gonna fire me because I couldn’t get the clue until today.

  • GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.eeOPEnglish
    10·
    7 months ago

    Because I’ve been berated for decades about how I’m stupid for not getting the point, training me to think it’s my fault. Anxiety isn’t rational.

    • Donut@leminal.spaceEnglish
      8·
      7 months ago

      I understand. You’re right that anxiety (or any emotion) isn’t rational, but try to remind yourself that communication is a two way street.

      They obviously hold a position of power considering they are your boss, but it would be good to discuss expectations and boundaries to prevent miscommunication in the future!