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No one here has called OP a loser and told them to fuck off.

Bullying because people disagree? Downvotes are akin to bullying now?

Jesus Christ.

Might as well say OP is bullying those who have been enjoying the fad and posting their pets in the past week.

Certainly not toxic at all to complain about a fad that ends up with more cute pets in the community and then make a post announcing their departure, right?

The common room TV usually has reruns of The Simpsons playing simply because everyone can agree on that lol

It’s a fad, it has boosted engagement in the community, and it won’t last forever.

Maybe check back in a week or two.

Yes, TV in the bedroom and in the living room. Living room setup is for sharing with roommates and the kid. Bedroom gets used as our personal living room when everyone else is sleeping.

Do you think this is helpful advice for someone who has already decided they want a photographer and have budgeted for it?

It’s cool that you didn’t feel the need for photos. I will point out that physical photos are one of the first items people try to grab when there’s a fire or other disaster that forces them from their homes.

Different people will place different priorities on wedding events. It’s ok for OP to want to have photos of their wedding.

One of the reasons I roll my eyes at people aghast at wedding photography prices. You’re not just paying for their work on the day of the wedding - you’re paying for experience, their time editing, and for insurance.

Most photographers have a clause in their contract that they’re the only ones hired for photography.

You should absolutely be getting a decent photog with that budget, even in high cost areas.

Ask to see their portfolios and keep a close eye on the shots from the reception and those in not ideal lighting conditions. If their photos are good even in those circumstances, it’s a good sign.

No Intelligence

I also love how versatile onions are. They can be spicy or sweet depending on how you prepare them. You can grow them easily, even from scraps. They’re a very magical plant :)

Cooking. Transforming raw ingredients into something tasty always makes me feel like a kitchen witch!

Especially onions. Those fuckers are magic incarnate.

I quit alcohol completely last year, both for physical and mental health.

Stick to a consistent sleep schedule.

Signed up for swim classes recently and may add water aerobics. Having an autoimmune disease makes it a little more difficult to do high impact work outs, but it’s important to keep your body moving.

Eat a balanced diet. Everything in moderation including moderation.

It’s worse here for that tbh.

Oh that happens on Lemmy, too lol

She’s in a conservative country where she cannot live freely as a lesbian. I hardly think she is choosing to pursue sex with men when she clearly states that she’s only attracted to women.

If a woman has a long term relationship with a man and realizes that she’s a lesbian during the course of that relationship, she’s still a lesbian.

Having taken dick is not a disqualifier from being gay.

She never says she’s attracted to men.

Are lesbians only allowed to be “gold star lesbians”?

Is a lesbian who experimented with having sex with men a bisexual?

I think we could respect that OP is in a situation where she cannot fully live as herself. Finding the physical act of sex pleasant is not an indication of attraction. There are rape victims who have orgasmed during their rape for example. It doesn’t mean they wanted it.