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I think that’s largely going to depend on what kind of hair cut you want. I do a semi layered cut. I bend forward, brush all my hair towards my forehead, put it in a pony tail, and cut it whenever I want.

I will note if you’re cutting it close to your forehead, maybe take some front pieces out or you’ll have really really short bangs. After I do all that I double check it in the mirror, make sure both sides are even, trim if they’re not, trim my bangs how I want them, and I’m good for another month or two.

Is it in style? Idk. I’m pushing 40, I don’t really give a shit anymore. But it sure beats the hell out of going to the salon.

As someone who has a lot of trauma and is going through something similar with a new partner, it’s so freeing just having someone get me.

Around me is not even “rich” people. It’s people in debt up to their eye balls pretending to be rich, keeping up with the Jones’ and straight up just being dicks most of the time.

I only have a vague understand of what all that means but either way, you did a great job!

Breaking generational trauma by actually doing therapy and allowing myself to be vulnerable. Shit sucks lol

You’re doing community service, that’s awesome!

That’s such a big task! That’s amazing!

I’ve found proton’s mail/calendar to be pretty good so far. Sharing works great if everyone has proton. If they don’t they can share an invite and you can add it to your calendar but you won’t get their updates unfortunately.

Proud of you. I’m literally texting my brother right now about generational trauma and how at least we’re going to therapy unlike our father. It’s hard to do better, but you’re doing it!

Yesss, would recommend

Probably not rare in general but rare where I’m from. Racing, asphalt circle track stuff. Like NASCAR but much smaller, cheaper, and local tracks.

In my area every single one is a Mexican restaurant and I’m not mad about it.

As a woman I had a similar interaction. I was def a “pick me” for far too long.

Now that my brother has found the right medication, his life is actually going really well.

Being safe in my marriage wasn’t the same as being happy. We didn’t fight or argue, we didn’t hate each other or even dislike each other. We didn’t throw things at each other and scream at each other. After my childhood, I thought this was a happy healthy relationship. Turns out, we’re great friends but we aren’t in love. Now that I’ve discovered what happy, healthy AND in love is like, my mind is blown.

I never understood the comments from my friends that I didn’t seem happy. I thought I was…

I always always wanted all the JTHM comics as a teen. My parents said absolutely not! What do I have with my adult money? All the comics.

Jhonen apparently has hypnophobia so, that explains a lot.

The fact that I just had a 12 year old tell me they like rusty spoons last week really messed with my head. She was indeed quoting salad fingers.

Not TV but you could absolutely see how much the creators mental health was struggling if you read through his comic series, Johnny The Homicidal Maniac

Ugh I’ve heard both. I talk too much and I don’t talk enough, which do you freaking want?! Cause I can’t win either way and I can’t win by being myself. Lately I just decided fuck it, I do what I want.

House plants were a big introvert hobby of mine for years. I kinda lost the special interest love lately though and keep forgetting to take care of them. Oops