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Cake day: March 1st, 2024

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  • Student at university shared the 2br. house with 4 other dudes, in Poughkeepsie NY in the mid 90s, 2 who lived there originally had the bedrooms, me and one guy got the dining room we dividend with furniture, milk crates & curtains… everyone had a good time in the living room hearing me and one of my dates fucking…like the entire crew and their friends lined up like judges at a field sporting event

    The bathroom was always wet… every surface

    the boiler would often shut down, freezing us…most of the time on the weekends when we couldn’t get it running again

    prostitutes would walk up to our door

    the oil pipe to the boiler leaked outside

    2 dogs & a snake as well, nothing in the fridge except garlic and weed (how my friend paid for his college tuition)





  • So you’re basically telling chefs to research and write out for you all the variables?

    Baking is a science, cooking is an art.

    Every recipe handed down through generations has notes, changes, etc…that’s what makes it beautiful.

    I am lucky to have my grandmother’s cook book with 3x5 index cards hand written, with the date and whom the recipe is from…but I don’t use lard in her Ginger Bread recipe from 1932.

    There is no exact science you’re looking for, the garlic grown here won’t be the same as the garlic grown there, your experience won’t be the same as someone who has cooked for years saying ‘fuck it, throw that in there and let’s see what happens’.

    …lol, amateur hour










  • Banks in the US really don’t want to give you your money. Keep a US phone # (I think Google phone has one which doesn’t kill you in charges) so you can contact them (when and if you transfer money).

    You should take a trip first to set up some groundwork, find a trusted lawyer (we have two, one is our accountant, who’s also a lawyer, and another who is our immigration lawyer). They will go over all your paperwork for housing rentals, they should know people who can get your health insurance set up -you probably will need private health care +repatriation insurance until you are a permanent resident. Cost is around €50/per person per month, paid monthly (for us).

    Downsize as much as possible, do not put ‘artwork’ on you customs for for import as they will hold up the works. )paperwork, personal clothing, household goods, etc. vague and mundane.

    Your first year RENT a place in a town you choose, you will know in that year if that’s where you want to be or not. Our experience was we got a place for summer (3months) then checked out all the towns along the coast and kept coming back to where we settled, so we found a place for a year there, then COVID… then found the place we are in the process of buying.

    Walkable city, good infrastructure to travel by bus/train, 2 airports 1hr away in opposite directions. We don’t drive anymore & bike everywhere, and live 500M from the Mediterranean Sea.

    So yeah… being by the water is absolutely worth any issues we encountered.





  • Chef/owner & I’ve stayed away from the ‘glass of wine when you cook’ because I have grown attached to my fingers. I like to relax when I drink, so it’s either when I’m off or after we shut down.

    Currently in Spain, probably going to end my career here and drinking is very different from where I grew up.

    Lunch is at 9am, and it’s common to see people having a beer (followed by coffee)

    People tend to nurse drinks, it’s a more social thing, and if they get buzzed it’s usually low key and don’t get too sloppy- however I’ve seen holiday parties for businesses get everyone wasted…and fiestas all bets are off, lol.

    I love it here.