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Cake day: September 12th, 2023

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  • I already said that there are plenty of understandable reasons why someone would want to eat out instead of cook elsewhere, but the idea that it’s cheaper is just untrue.

    Cost of your time? Are you either cooking or working? That’s ridiculous. You can make a weeks worth of baked chicken in an hour, easily.

    Look, if you don’t have the time or skill to prepare a meal, I get it, no one is forcing you to cook, but hiding behind the idea that somehow eating out is cheaper is just spreading lies.


  • Yes, many foods is going to expire if you don’t eat quickly enough.

    Managing your food stores is a life skill and it’s one that takes some people more time than others to hone to a point where your food waste is minimal.

    That doesn’t make eating at restaurants or getting take out cheaper per meal than cooking at home.

    Have you heard of soup? Soup’s great. Don’t sleep on soup.









  • Have you encountered one of these people in real life?

    I have never met anyone who espouses any values like this nor have I see any online presence of someone like this, either.

    What I mean is, don’t overvalue the people on this online community you’ve found in a way that impacts your life. There aren’t throngs of people out there trying to castrate or kill you for being polyamorous because they want to replicate toxic relationships in anime and manga.








  • In the moment? Put him to bed. Tell him he’s too drunk and he’s causing problems, acting inappropriately and put him to bed. Tomorrow, explain what happened, if he’s not immediately remorseful hit him with the “Are you proud of your actions? Trying to touch my cock in front of my family?” be explicit. Explain that is unacceptable and if that’s how he’s going to act while drunk, he can’t drink that much around your family. Set these firm boundaries.

    If he’s a decent man, he’s gonna feel really regretful. You can explain you still love him, you still wanna be with him, you understand people get drunk and make bad decisions and ask him if he wants help metering his drinking and try to work out some code phrases to remind him to pace himself while saving face. Revelling drunks hate to be told “Slow down” or “Haven’t you had enough?” Something like touching his shoulder and saying “Whew, these drinks are strong! I think I’m gonna get a buffer water, do you want one, honey?”

    Also, get him a Gatorade before he goes to bed and one for when he wakes up, that should help the hangover in a big way. Any electrolytes will do. I like the Brode pills.

    Edit: Might wanna reassure him he didn’t ruin Christmas, buuuuut he might have made a memorable story 😏. Also if it’s too early in the day to go to bed, impress upon him he needs a lil nap and can rejoin the party after.