Even so I’ll add a warning that Hexbear.net is a troll instance. They don’t so much truly believe in anything so much as spoil for a fight, which is fine except consent does not matter to them and they refuse to restrain themselves outside of their instance that was created for that purpose. Also they have been caught actually lying to instance admins. Even so they can be fun to talk with, so long as you aren’t taken by surprise e.g. mistaking it for people being serious:-).