A year ago, I liked a 16-year-old boy. I didn’t date him nor say I liked him for obvious reasons (I was freshly 19.)

I’ve been looking for girls to experiment with to explore my bisexuality and get over my attraction to men, and there’s this one friend I have online. Not going to lie, she’s hot. But… she’s 17 and a junior in high school. I’ll be 20 in April.

Do I risk ruining the friendship and possibly have something more if she says yes (and finally see if I like women) or get over it?

Our years of birth would be 2005 for me and 2007-08 for her.

I’ve heard 17 and 19 is alright though, and that’s the age I am now! Besides, it may not be anything serious.

    • quickenparalysespunk@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      2 days ago

      the law is not banning all sex for <18. Notice how its <18 AND age difference.

      same age pair , no matter how young, would not face any criminal charges. (one set of parents might file a lawsuit against the other parents, but that could happen at any age)