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You might want to X-post to c/relationshipadvice as well. That being said, the only one responsible for kidnapping anyone is the kidnappers. And no one should expect their friends or lover to kill their kidnappers. It would likely get you killed in the attempt. On top of this, these are all hypotheticals.
Someone who is using hypotheticals that they made up in their head against you is more worried about themselves than you.
It is not my place, but this person sounds like someone I wouldn’t even want to be friends with, let alone date. Friends are there to build each other up, not tear them down and add anxiety.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How are engine sounds in racing games played ?
65·1 year agoMost older games will have 2-3 engine loops that they will blend between and pitch accordingly, however Forza 5 specifically was the first in the series to use granular synthesis which is a much more modern approach.
These will have a series of sound files including all the different parts of the engine, exhaust, turbo, etc. Then the software slices these files into tons of pieces in real-time and plays the slices based on the players inputs.
It’s tricky to explain without examples, so here’s a video that does a decent job of explaining how it works in music: https://youtu.be/ftDLRYnRYZQ?si=SEHOl55K7rimi4Eu
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Series: What are your tried-and-proven tricks for relaxing/relieving anxiety
3·1 year agoI can recommend myNoise if you’re looking for an app with quality soundscapes. Unfortunately not free for all of them, but they are all very high quality and they offer an unlock all option.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What is an underrated/forgotten video game that you think deserved a second chance?
5·1 year agoDang. I thought I was the only person who had ever heard of this one. Might have to boot it up in an emulator one of these days and give it a go.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If you don't work IT, retail, or food service what do you do for work?
4·1 year agoScreenprinting. I also did work as a quality tech for machining. Manufacturing jobs in general do not seem to get any public recognition even though they can be some of the most engaging and can cater to a lot of people that don’t enjoy the employee-customer relationship.
That being said, finding the sweet spot for management can be a challenge.
It’s a career path that’s practically ignored in schools and I wish math classes used more examples from engineering and manufacturing to answer the age-old “Where am I ever going to use this?” question.
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Programmer Humor@programming.dev•What the heck is a god dang cloud?
90·1 year agoI speak from experience that no one other than professionals should be handling their own mail servers in 2024. I worked for a mail host. The amount of spam and attacks that befall a mail provider, even a small one, is bonkers. Plus, mail is just too damn important.
I wish it wasn’t the case because the idea of everyone privately hosting their own mail servers would be pretty awesome. Sadly the modern internet makes it way too risky.
Infected Mushroom. They have a sound unlike anything I’ve heard anywhere else. I recommend the album Army of Mushrooms to newcomers, but their entire collection is solid.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do you know what a streaming service have available if all of them need you to subscribe before showing you.
6·1 year agoI’ll pitch in since no one’s mentioned Reelgood.com yet. Justwatch has been inconsistent for me in the past.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What Video games graphically hold up on their aesthetic?
2·1 year agoWow. This wasn’t on my radar at all! Definitely going to be checking this out.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What Video games graphically hold up on their aesthetic?
7·1 year agoYesss. The way the lines all sort of sway always gives it such a unique look. I was worried the remaster would take some of this away, but it looked just as good.
I wish we could have gotten a proper sequel. RIP Clover Studios.
While less popular, Viewtiful Joe also still holds up for similar reasons.
For files, yeah. I was thinking of text.
Cut deletes if you don’t paste after.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Massive issues with sleep and desperate for a solution.
3·1 year agoI can second the white noise. I fall asleep to a mix of rain, wind and rolling thunder pretty much every night. It probably takes about half the time it used to now that I do it as a habit.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's the best wax-on-wax-off-style advice you've heard that you can attest as being helpful in certain situations?
40·1 year agoNot sure if this applies, but “You can never love someone else until you love yourself” was a lesson my dad taught me from a very young age.
If you don’t like yourself, you’ll almost inevitably end up with someone who is taking advantage because you won’t be able to stand up for yourself and you won’t speak up when they hurt you.
There are the very rare exceptions, but they are the ones who help you help yourself. Someone who truly helps you will not shower you with gifts or compliments, but rather will help you recognize and change what you don’t like about yourself. In other words, “Only a true friend would be that truly honest.”
Yeah. Maybe one about Noah’s Ark or something. No way that could fail.
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Selfhosted@lemmy.world•‘My whole library is wiped out’: what it means to own movies and TV in the age of streaming servicesEnglish
3·2 years agoFor DVDs, I’ve never had an issue. They just amplified the BS on BluRays tenfold.
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Selfhosted@lemmy.world•‘My whole library is wiped out’: what it means to own movies and TV in the age of streaming servicesEnglish
6·2 years agoI went the route of a physical collection, but man do they make it difficult unless you get a commercial player that is likely to have ads and doesn’t integrate well into a home theater setup.
I’ve taken to doing everything I can to play things through my computer, but they do everything in their power to make them unplayable. This includes things like adding hundreds of bogus playlists so you don’t know which one to play, adding extra layers of encryption that cause image corruption a few chapters into the movies, and more.
If they just allowed you to easily watch and rip the movies that I pay actual money for, I think a lot more people would be open to a physical collections of their favorites. As it stands, I can’t really recommend it.

Optimistic nihilism is my chosen way of life. Here’s a really good kurzgesagt video on it: https://youtu.be/MBRqu0YOH14?si=2xh3B1eQJN4xosI6
[insert happy/sad bus meme, but both sides say “nothing matters”]
Another way of thinking of it, if you only get to experience this once, make it the best experience you can.